Support for Families and Carers

Worried about your child? You're not alone.​
If you’ve noticed sudden changes in your child’s behaviour, new friendships you’re unsure about, or things just don’t feel right — trust your instincts. Many families in similar situations feel blamed, isolated, or unsure where to turn. But help does exist.

​At Smart Training & Consultancy, we’ve spent over two decades working with families affected by youth violence, child criminal exploitation (CCE), and gang involvement. This page brings together what we’ve learned — and what we believe all families deserve to know.

What to Look Out For​
These signs don’t always mean exploitation is happening, but they may be warning flags:
  • Sudden changes in mood or attitude
  • Unexplained money, clothes, or phones
  • Going missing or staying out late without reason
  • Secretive behaviour, especially around phones or new friends
  • Increased tension at home, aggressive outbursts or withdrawal
  • Signs of fear, intimidation, or anxiety
  • Association with older individuals or unfamiliar peer groups
If something feels off — it probably is. You don’t need all the signs to act.
What You Can Do
  • Stay calm, stay present: Avoid blame. Your child may be scared too.
  • Keep the door open: Show that you're there to talk — even if they're not ready.
  • Document concerns: Keep a record of things that don’t feel right. It helps if you need support later.
  • Reach out early: You don’t need a crisis to seek advice.
  • Avoid going it alone: There are services trained to help — for you and your child.
Who Can Help
​These services offer support for parents and carers:
  • St Giles Trust – support for families and individuals affected by violence, exploitation, or prison
  • NSPCC – national child protection charity, includes advice lines and resources
  • Ivison Trust – (formally known as PACE)Parents Against Child Exploitation – excellent CCE-specific resources
  • Just for Kids Law – legal support for young people and families
  • The Children’s Society – guidance on spotting signs and accessing help
  • Your local council’s early help or safeguarding team